- It is not uncommon to find yourself in a situation where you like a girl as more than a friend, but she just likes you as a friend. In some cases there is nothing you can do about this; however, if you can sow the seeds of erotic thought, without actually taking drastic or direct action, you may well find her becoming more attracted to you.
- The problem often lies in being nice, and not naughty, as many people are. This will give an impression that you are a great friend, but not a great lover. So you really need to flirt more. And if you don’t think you are any good at flirting — don’t worry! Flirting is, and should be, playful and fun.
- Joke around, be more playful, spend more time looking into their eyes or glancing at them “cutely” or “suggestively”. If she gets creeped out by it, make a joke of it, but make sure you’re not coming across as a weirdo.
- Make physical contact 3 times every time you meet up with her. Each time you do, it should be about 2-3 seconds, somewhere like their hand, shoulder, or anywhere that’s not too uncomfortable.
- Don’t spend too much time around her. Instead, spend lots of time, and then none for a while, then more again, and flirt while you are there. While you are gone, she is given a chance to think about you, which hopefully she will.
- Take care of your appearance. Make sure you shave regularly and don’t smell.
- Do things for her, like help her out whenever you can, but spend more time with her when she is happy than when she is sad. This helps her to associate happiness with you. If you are successful in making her your girlfriend, that’s when it becomes important to support her when she needs it.
- Invite her to parties. You can request for her to do the same, but be careful: you can come across as a creep to some people by doing this.
- The most important thing is to be flirtatious, and let things happen naturally.
- Listen to her! Don’t just sit there and nod your head pretending to listen. Girls love it when you listen and take the time to truly understand them. Not only that, but listening will benefit the potential future relationship and also strengthen your current friendship.
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